Green and Growing

A growing apple tree is always green and produces its fruit. A brown apple tree becomes leafless and barren. I am reminded of an older couple who were members of a former car club.

They spent their latter years waiting to die sitting on “his and her” recliners in front of their TV. Between their recliners was an end table with a variety of snacks on top and a small pharmacy of medications on the lower shelves. At some point in their lives, they made the choice to stop being fruitful. Yes, they were getting older and their health was failing but they made the conscience decision to give up.

In contrast, I witnessed a much older gentleman who had a walker next to his clubs on his golf cart. It amazed me to watch him exit his cart to retrieve his walker and club of choice, walk to his golf ball using the walker, place the walker behind him, and then he would grip the club and strike the ball. He even had a golf ball grabber on the end of his putter so he would not have to stoop when retrieving his ball from the cup. There was no “giving up” in his mindset and he was certainly practicing the “use it or loose it” principle.

Many years ago, a corporate speaker led a seminar with the phrase, “if you are not green and growing, you are brown and dying.” The speaker was stressing the importance of setting time aside in our schedule to broaden our knowledge. It’s easy for people to place all their time to work in their business while losing site of working on their business. By failing to take the time to work on their business by educating themselves, they would eventually fall behind their more prepared competition. In other words, they would experience the “law of diminishing returns” and their fruit bearing business would become like the brown apple tree becoming less and less fruitful as the years past by.

Frank’s spiritual journey

Frank was a very religious person who attended Sunday services regularly and sometimes when his life was going sideways, he would rise early on weekdays to attend 6am services before going to work. If there was an award for church attendance, Frank would have certainly earned one. It wasn’t until Frank’s spiritual awakening that he realized being a religious person is not the same as having a relationship with God. In the past, Frank offered up a lot of “rote” prayers and attended church services out of obligation because his religion taught him that’s how a Christian is to please God. Although Frank had become fairly successful by this physical world’s standards, he knew deep down in his heart there was something missing. Frank was experiencing the “law of diminishing returns” in his spiritual life. There was a void in his heart that could not be filled with his money, his material things or his religion. With all that he had accomplished in this physical world, Frank was feeling like that brown apple tree.

So one day while enjoying a cigar in his front yard and listening to the soothing rhythm of the sprinklers watering his lawn, Frank uttered his most powerful and life-changing prayer. His prayer was not eloquent but simple, it was not a rote prayer but from the heart and genuine, nor was it lengthy; Frank’s prayer was only these four words:
Holy Spirit help me!

Don’t be hasty to speak and do not be impulsive to make a speech before God. God is in heaven and you are on earth, so let your words be few. Just as dreams accompany much labor, so also a fool’s voice comes with many words. – Ecclesiastes 5:2-3
< God is not looking for great orators or longwinded prayers >

Now, this would make for a spectacular movie if the heavens parted, the Holy Spirit descended, and Frank sprouted wings beneath a glowing halo. But God’s timing is not ours, and His work begins on the inside—with our hearts. Frank recalls that it was nearly four months to the day from his simple prayer until he first heard God’s voice. From that moment on, Frank bid farewell to his religious past and embarked on a spiritual journey into a personal relationship with God the Father, God the Son, and God the Holy Spirit.

And whatever you ask in prayer, you will receive, 
if you have faith.” – Matthew 21:22
< God loves genuine prayers of faith >

Frank stopped going to church for a few years. During those years, Frank spent a lot of time in the word of God. He read the Bible, he studied it, he went deep to understand the meaning of the Hebrew and Greek words translated into his English Bible, and he looked to the interpretations of commentators to verses he had a hard time comprehending. But mostly, Frank prayed to the Holy Spirit to help him understand scripture. Today Frank attends a Bible based church, he participates in a weekly Bible study, and he continues to enjoy his daily “manna” of God’s word. Although Frank is almost 20 years older since his spiritual awakening, He is much greener and still growing in God’s presence.

Frank’s journey is far from unique. He believed that by adhering to his church’s rules and ticking off the “required” boxes, he was pleasing God. Some religions are good and some are misleading. In Frank’s case, his former church taught that specific activities were essential to earn God’s favor. A reader’s comment in one of my previous post’s (The Complications of Baptism) addresses Frank’s previous religion perfectly…

“Some of these religions require us to perform certain rituals to belong to their church. It’s like being a Boy Scout and earning merit badges.” – Norman Flynn

Frank was fortunate to discern there was a significant void in his life. His soul was longing for its creator. He learned that going to church and taking part in religious rituals and ceremonies does not make you a Christian. You cannot place God in your debt by performing rituals to earn you spiritual merit badges. God does not want your activities, He wants your heart. Once you invite Him into your heart, He will give you the Holy Spirit to guide you in the activities He has in mind for you.

How Is your relationship with God?
Is it green and growing or brown and dying?

Whether you are a believer or a non-believer, whether your answer is “not so good” or “it could be better;” there is a beautiful Bible verse that tells you all you need to do to make that first step.

Draw near to God and He will draw near to you. – James 4:8a

This verse is the beginning of every believer’s testimony. God is a gentlemen and He will not force Himself upon you. But if you invite Him in like Frank did, He will come running! Turn towards Him and be filled with His light. Enjoy His presence and allow His light to make your spiritual life green again.

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7 responses to “Green and Growing”

  1. Ellen Pickle

    There has been periods in my life where I felt close to God and other times when I did not. Frank’s story is close to mine in that it wasn’t until I completely surrendered to God before I understood what it meant to be close to God. God is always present in my life. It’s an amazing inner peace that I never experienced before.

  2. Mark Bennett

    Wow, I think you had me in mind when you wrote this. I lived a large part of my life chasing that brass ring. I thought if I just worked a little harder, I would make enough money to be successful. Unfortunately, I was spending too much time working in my business and not on it. My spiritual life wasn’t any better. I figured if I went to church once a week that would be good enough for God. I regret not placing him first in my life a long time ago. But, God has been patient with me and I am the prodigal son who finally returned back to him. God is good and patient and merciful.

  3. Matt Fry

    My brother in law had to put his dad in assisted living. It was actually a very nice place. But his dad never took advantage of all the activities the facility had to offer. When he asked his father why he wasn’t participating, his father replied “why bother, I am here waiting to die.” Sad way to live out your remaining years.

  4. Susan Maloney

    I think the newer retirement communities are helping people to remain green and growing. But being brown and dying is not the affliction reserved for old people. I have met many people 20 years my junior that don’t seem passionate about life or God. We live in a sad world.

  5. Jon Williams

    One of my most cherished and relaxing moments was coming home after work and watering my lawn. I loved the sound and rhythm of the sprinkler. It was peaceful and a great way to have conversations with God.

  6. Joan

    You have a typo: First sentence of last paragraph, God is “a” Gentlemen. Add the “a”.

    1. Gabriel

      Thank you.

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